Wedding Guest List

We made a guest list with everyone that we would want to invite to our wedding. There are currently about sixty people too many. It's true that not all of the people we invite can and/or will come, but the list still needs to be narrowed down.

Where do I start?

I can't really narrow down his side without him, so we'll save that part for later.
My problem is that I want to be able to invite "everyone" to our wedding. I don't want to have to exclude anyone. I want to be able to invite everyone that means something to us. I would like to invite whoever I want and not offend anyone. Is it possible? Can I invite only forty people between the two of us and not worry about leaving anyone out?

Maybe I'll try using this: